How To Tell If You Are For Real Or Just A Booty Call

1. They want minimal interaction with you

There might’ve been conversation and ‘getting-to-know-you’-ness in the beginning, but that was just the ground work. They don’t want to know about your parents, your experiences in life or what makes you awesome, they also don’t care. It’s about seeing you, then un-seeing you pretty promptly. 

2. Their friends

You haven’t met and will never meet their friends. Unless it’s by pure coincidence. And watch how awkward that will be. This is indicative of someone who wants to keep you in the third ring of their inner sanctum. 

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3. The show off 

This is pretty obvious. They will never show you off to anyone they’re talking to who’s the same gender as you. They want to keep their lines of opportunity open at any given chance and don’t want to come across as ‘marked territory’. 

4. The future

There’s no talk of when they see you next, what you’ll be doing next week/month/year. That’s because there is no future with you. Until the next time they’ve had too much to drink and there’s no other option than to see you. 

5. The brush offs

This is the kind of stuff you’d expect after a considerable amount of time spent together, but brush-off comments related to how busy they are with work, how much ‘fun’ you’re having together and questions about why you’d make it complicated are alarm bells for the reality. 

6. All the odd times

You’re only hearing from them late at night? Yep, booty call. A 2am text message doesn’t mean they’re concerned about your welfare, it means they’re seeing if you’re awake to summon you over for things. 

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7. Where’d they go?

There’s now weekday conversation unless pressured to keep relations nice. They won’t respond too readily, if at all, and can run the risk of coming-up with BS excuses later that are short, simple and nonchalant. 

8. Dates?

Never going on dates? Why would they. They get exactly what they want without the cost. Win-win!

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9. What’s in a kiss…

No lip-love? Dead set giveaway of someone who has no affection for you as kissing is affectionate, not lustful. 

10. Cuddles!

No cuddling before or after? Standard booty call vibes. Sure, ‘cuddling’ can be used as a euphemism for a naked romp, but sometimes, it can literally mean cuddling. If there’s no pre or post-naked lying down and enjoying of each other’s company, BAM, you’re out. 

Source: Famous Live