Missionary is great for him because he has control over the depth and speed of thrusting. And you love it because it’s intimate and requires lots of eye and skin contact. Bonus: The friction of your pelvis indirectly stimulates your clitoris, which most women need to achieve orgasm, according to the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction.
Also known as woman on top, cowgirl puts you in control of the pace and depth of penetration, giving you the freedom to mix it up between shallow and deep thrusts. As for him? Well, you can’t beat that kind of view.
Doggy style allows for deep penetration, which feels amazing for the both of you. Have him thrust slowly and gently so he doesn't hurt you.
This article originally appeared on Men's Health