Nobody wants to have a reputation for being bad in bed. Fortunately, research suggests there are a few things you can avoid to make a big difference.
So what's the opposite of someone who talks too much, doesn't move, and isn't passionate? The study had some insight into what makes for good sex as well.
An overwhelming 83 percent of singles “regard a caring and enthusiastic partner” as the number one sign of good sex. The second most important indicator of good sex, the survey said, was communication, at 78 percent, and “being a good kisser” came in third at 76 percent. All three of those factors, in fact, ranked higher than actually getting off.
It's worth noting that all of these factors are part of a whole. The data shows that ideally, to have great sex, you should be genuinely into the sex you’re having, be an open communicator (but don’t talk too much!), and make damn sure you’re a good kisser. The fact that getting off isn't at the top of the list means that if you're nailing those parts, theres a good chance your partner will still have a good time. And as far as the almighty O goes, we've got some tips on helping her get there, but ultimately, don’t focus on it too much.
This article originally appeared on Men's Health