“The goal is to push your comfort zone and try something new,” Redditor TryAnything3Times explains. “If a partner is uncomfortable with a challenge and they no longer have an edit or VETO, they can borrow a partner’s VETO. In this case, the partner who gives up a VETO gets to pick the new activity.”
The challenge starts pretty simply, with having sex at a time other than before bed, and works up to more complicated things like trying to have five orgasms or sex five times in one day.
Here are a few of the more notable challenges:
- Visit a sex store together. You both must make a purchase: sex toys, sex games, videos, or books.
- Each partner brings self to an orgasm seated in front of partner on bed. Same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Observe and learn.
- Find a new place in the house for sex. Kitchen, bath, living room, chair, sofa, floor, etc.
- Dinner out with under the table touching. Nothing illegal! Then go home or hotel for sex.
The post has gotten some major buzz on Reddit, as people have not been shy about voicing their thoughts on this couple's challenge. Although, there were some mixed reactions in the comments:
It sounds like the 30-day sex challenge is pretty flexible, so feel free to steal this idea and make it your own.
This article originally appeared on Women's Health US