You’ve Probably Been Doing Your Pre-Sex Prep Wrong This Whole Time

It’s practically been drummed into the brains of women since the dawn of time: you need to pee before a romp sesh to keep your vajay happy and healthy. But it turns out we’ve actually been doing way more harm than good. Wait What GIF – Find & Share on GIPHY RELATED: Your Guide To […]

by | Dec 21, 2017

It’s practically been drummed into the brains of women since the dawn of time: you need to pee before a romp sesh to keep your vajay happy and healthy. But it turns out we’ve actually been doing way more harm than good.

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According to urologist David Kaufman, this is the “number one cause of post-coital urinary tract infections.”

“Bacteria have tiny pilli that act as Velcro hooks, which allow them to attach themselves to the urethral lining,” he told Yahoo Health.

If the bacteria isn’t dislodged, it can make its way up to the bladder, where it quickly reproduces and grows (which is what causes all the ouch). 

So, what’s a girl to do?

Kaufman recommends waiting for a post-sex whiz. The idea is that you’ll have enough urine stored up to create a strong stream to flush all the nastiness out of your system and reduce the risk of a UTI. 

But (of course) it’s not a guaranteed fix.

Some women are more susceptible than others to developing infections, as their vaginal opening is positioned closer to their vaginas, Kaufman explains.

For these peeps, it’s best to avoid using excessive lube, sex toys and always ensure you’re wiping front to back.

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Women Fleeing Domestic Violence Can Now Receive A One-Off Support Payment

It’s been labelled the shadow pandemic and the fact remains that for many women across Australia, domestic violence is a lived reality that doesn’t discriminate by age, occupation, or socio-economic status. Researchers have found that during Covid-19 lockdowns, there was a surge in family and domestic violence, with agencies experiencing a surge in demand as nearly half their clients reported an increase in controlling behaviours. 

As many who have lived through such turmoil and trauma can attest, the roadmap to fleeing such situations at home can be fraught with challenges and extremely difficult to navigate, particularly when such bureaucracy makes it even harder. Now, it’s been announced that women fleeing a violent relationship will be given a one-off $5,000 payment as part of a federal government trial scheme. 

Known as the “escaping violence payment scheme,” the government has set aside $144.5 million over the next two years to give women $1,500 cash, with the remainder to pay for goods and services, bond, school fees and other necessaries to establish a new safe home. UnitingCare Network will be tasked with delivering the payments while helping link women and their children with relevant community services. 

As the Daily Telegraph reports, “An analysis of domestic violence data by the Australian Bureau of Statistics shows that while it is more common for women from poorer areas, women from high socio-economic areas are not immune from experiencing partner violence.”

As Women’s Safety Minister Anne Ruston explained, the trial has been introduced with the aim to help women overcome the financial barriers that might deter them from leaving a violent relationship. “We know that financial hardship as well as economic abuse - which may involve interfering with work or controlling or withholding money - reduces women’s ability to acquire and use money and makes it difficult to leave violent relationships,” she said. 

“The payments will assist people who need financial support to leave. We know the size of the house a woman is fleeing doesn’t matter. Often she bundles the kids into the car, maybe the dog too and they leave with nothing more than the clothes on their backs.”

To be eligible for a payment, women must be facing financial stress and have some evidence of domestic violence such as a referral from a family and domestic violence service provider with a risk assessment and safety plan, or an AVO, court order or police report. As UnitingCare Australia National Director Claerwen Little said, “We believe that all people, especially women and their children, have the right to live freely and without fear, and this payment is an important step forward to ending violence against women and children.”

If you require immediate assistance, please call 000.

If you’d like to speak to someone about domestic violence, please call the 1800 

Respect hotline on 1800 737 732 or chat online. 

Under 25? You can reach Kids Helpline at 1800 55 1800 or chat online.