8 Date Ideas For When You’re Sick Of Dinner And A Movie

by | Aug 5, 2019

Much like listening to your fave song on repeat, going on the same date gets old pretty quick (looking at you, dinner/movie combo.) Here, via Reddit, we’ve rounded up 10 weekend activities that are anything but predictable.

1. An impromptu road trip

“A favourite unusual one was when a man woke me up at 3 or 4 in the morning and we set off on an impromptu road trip to a resort town to get breakfast. We watched the sunrise, ate eggs benedict, napped in the car, and we took me home. I’ll never forget that date. The surprise of it, the laughter as we fueled up with all the caffeine we could at rest stops, the soft conversation and smiles as we ate, the comfortable silence with sideways glances and locked eyes as we drove home.” [Via]

2. Spontaneous star-gazing

This guy and I laid down in the slides of a playground and just stared at the stars while listening to music. We didn’t talk at all and just enjoyed the sounds of night time and the static, low-quality audio of Regina Spektor. So simple but I remember it clearly.” [Via]

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3. Bargain hunting

“My SO took me to this massive antique/ thrift store on our first date. It was a lot of fun to poke around and crack jokes about ridiculous things. For our three-month ‘anniversary’ he went back and bought a silly kids book we had read together. It was really sweet.” [Via]

4. An arcade game challenge

“There’s an arcade where I live. It is basically all children’s casino games. One of the most fun and sweet dates I went on was going there and seeing how many tickets we could win and picking out prizes.” [Via]

5. A BYO cooking class

“I’m a huge wine drinker and I had a guy take me to a wine shop that did a cooking class/wine tasting where you made meals together and paired them with different wines. I think we did 4 different foods with as many pours as we wanted. It was awesome.” [Via]

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6. Collecting cool rocks

“I’ve never done this one but I would love to: you go to a beach with colourful rocks and you find ones that match each others eye colour – the best.” [Via]

7. Moonlit hiking

“I used to do this with friends! Our work schedules over summer breaks didn’t line up until midnight or so. We’d all pile into a car and head to an unpopular, secluded trailhead. Hike quietly by the moonlight filtering through the trees, strip down and swim in the creek, look at the stars, worry that every little noise was a predatory mammal or park ranger. It was such a carefree time in my life.” [Via]

8. A sexy scavenger hunt

“In Parks & Rec, Leslie makes a Valentine’s Day scavenger hunt for Ben. I could see that working as a cute couples date.” [Via]

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With October marking International Pregnancy Loss Awareness Month, we spoke to survivor of multiple miscarriages and women's health lobbyist Samantha Payne, CEO and Co-Founder of Pink Elephants - Australia’s only national support service dedicated solely to miscarriage and early pregnancy loss.

Here's her story.

What is your experience with miscarriage?

I have lost 3 babies to miscarriage, my first was a missed miscarriage - I walked into a scan expecting to show my then-toddler her baby sibling on the screen only to be met with 'I'm sorry there is no heartbeat.' I had to endure a weekend with that baby dead inside of me before I could be fitted in for a D&C.

My next miscarriage happened 6 months later - I started to bleed on holiday with friends, I told no one, I was deeply ashamed. I passed that baby alone in the shower at 3am, forever traumatised as I had to flush the remains down the toilet.

My final loss was just last year another miscarriage I started to spot and I just knew, the Doctor that saw me this time asked if we could see a flicker on the screen she thought there was a heartbeat, astounded we asked for a second opinion, where it was confirmed my baby had died.

How did you process the trauma?

With my first two losses, I didn't cope. I poured everything into Pink Elephants and having another baby. I had another pregnancy but was completely terrified the whole time, I didn't bond with this baby, no names, no gender reveal, wearing a brave face every day pretending I was grateful. When Johnny was 4 months old it all caught up with me: I had postpartum anxiety and post-traumatic stress as a result of my losses and not processing the trauma. With counselling and medication, I began to heal and process my losses. My loss last year was different: I took bereavement leave, I gave myself permission to grieve our baby girl and mourn my future with her. I spoke with others in our community, I went back to counselling, and I took the time I needed to start to heal.

How did you get the courage to launch Pink Elephants?

I don't think it was courage, in the beginning, I think it was my anger at the lack of support and validation that I chose to channel into something positive.

I never want my daughter to go through what I did in the way I did. Women deserve so much more than what we currently get.

Last year took courage to come back and work in this space again after bereavement leave - the physical and emotional pain was real, the triggers of other women's stories are real but they are also cathartic. As is the change we create, I feel like my work is meaningful and makes a difference that's what carries me on, I know we can do so much more with the right support alongside us.

I want to next see more targeted action from our government - in particular the Department of Health - in addressing this issue. It's no longer ok to turn a blind eye to the death of our babies, our trauma, and our poor mental health because of the system failing us.

How can we support a friend that has been through loss like this?

You can be there for her, you can validate her loss, don't reduce it to 'at least' comments. You can't take away her pain but you can provide a safe space for her to share and feel listened to, empathised with, and supported. Like any other bereavement send flowers, we have collaborated on a LVLY nurture flower posy as a way to do this. Remember there is no timeline to grief and it's ok for her to still be upset for many months after, remember her due date, acknowledge it at the time, support her through other friends' baby showers.

How can women experiencing miscarriage access support?

They can head to www.pinkelephants.org.au to access our circle of support, which includes online peer support communities to connect with others through miscarriage, trying to conceive again, and pregnancy after loss. Specialised emotional support content, as well as shared stories and journeys, can be accessed through our website too.