Not only is it perf for those that need a little extra ~stimulation,~ it’s also one of the few moves that allows YOU to take full control. The caveat? All that bouncing up and down at a rapid speed (albeit naked) can be kinda intimidating. Which is why we’ve recruited 11 dudes (via Reddit) to eliminate some of the awks.
1. "Use my chest for leverage." [via]
2. "This might be overly general advice, because it goes for everyone in most sex positions, but keep an eye on [your partner's] reactions to what you're doing. Both noises and facial expressions. If a particular speed, rhythm or angle is really working for him you should be able to see it in his face and possibly hear it. You can cycle through different options until you see a sign that one is a winner and then keep with that. If the guy is a skilled lover he's probably doing the same thing when he's on top." [via]
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3. "Don’t bounce too high... speed isn’t always the best. Going slow. Moving your hips in a circular motion is way better. Also, getting the right angle is important. Definitely ask which angle feels the best." [via]
4. "No matter what you think you look like, you don't need to be self-conscious. We are loving it, and we think you look hot as hell." [via]
5. "Don't be afraid to be a little selfish when you're on top. This is a position where you have more control. Use it to your advantage. If you want him to feel good, put a little vertical movement to it and allow his hands to roam." [via]
6. "While it feels really good for you to just grind your hips on him while he is inside. He generally needs some extra movement to build though friction for him to get off. Also, the further you bounce up the higher the risk you bend his penis wrong and kill the erection." [via]
7. "Focus on getting yourself off. We’re just glad to be there." [via]
8. "Don't be self-conscious on what you look like, but seeing you grind and moan is really hot. We love that shit. Speaking of grinding, I love it when she grinds on my dick more so than thrusting." [via]
9. "Press his hands to your boobs while grinding him. It's really hot!" [via]
10. “Personally, I like when she gets on top and tries her best to make herself cum. It gets me so turned on to see her take command of her own orgasmic destiny. This is also the most common way for my wife and I to cum together." [via]
11. "Use your hips, not your legs. Also, getting into a squat, on your hands and feet, that's extremely hot. And don't forget to lean in and kiss us every now and then." [via]
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