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This Reddit Post On How To Give The Best Blow Job Is Seriously NSFW

"Grip it firm, but not too strong." - by Lucy Bode
  • 07 Jun 2018
This Reddit Post On How To Give The Best Blow Job Is Seriously NSFW

Getting pumped about the prospect of having peen in your mouth can be hard sometimes (pun intended, obvs). Whether you’re a total BJ rookie or a deep-throat pro, the tongue-to-suction ratio is not an easy art to master. Thankfully, Reddit user ManyAssed is here to save the day with his super detailed post on how to play the skin flute like a maestro.

Step 1: Actually want to do the deed

"Do you want to blow him? Do you crave it? Are you hungry for the finale? If not, then just move on, do something else. Enthusiasm is key. And I can't stress this enough. If you are into it, as in actually getting turned on by giving a blowjob, craving what you get in the end - he is going to know, and it's going to drive him crazy. He is also going to know if you are doing it just because he asked, that's not being enthusiastic."

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Step 2: Grip it good

"Put your hand on his shaft and do a proper palm grip (no finger grips!) Grip it firm but not too strong (don't do death grips that cut off blood) and avoid squeezing a single finger more than the others. Put the rest of his dick in your mouth. As you go up and down, your lips and tongue should be moving on his head."

Step 3: Continuity is key

"Choose a comfortable speed and try to keep it even, adjust it to his reaction accordingly. You might be doing the best sucking but stopping randomly to change hands is going to break it. Change hands while sucking and rest your mouth while stroking - keeping the pace even. If you get tired it depends where you are - if he is about to come soon - just tough it out, but if you are still some way to go, just take a rest, maybe kiss him, show him how wet you got down there, etc. Well, whatever you do when you play. He is going to be able to tell if you are getting tired even before you know it. And it's hard to be enthusiastic and tired at the same time." 

Step 4: Perfect the positioning

"I'm imagining all this going with him lying on bed and you being between his legs, but he may have idle hands that want to touch you - consider sitting on the side so he can touch your ass easily, or if you are adventurous - going 69, even if he is not going to be eating you out. The view is going to turn him on 200 per cent."

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5. Keep it coming

"And here comes the end - once the first few shots come, take the force down, but don't stop. Stopping would ruin the orgasm but going a little too weak is going to be a lot better than going too strong when he is about to go sensitive. Be enthusiastic - he may be coming, but he will notice if you are just glad it's finally over."

6. See it through

"Depending on the guy, he may or may not want to kiss you afterwards. I mean if he expects you to have it all in your mouth, he will most likely not care if he tastes a little bit of himself."

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"Obviously, communication with your partner is key, but I'm aiming this at partners who don't talk much during sex."

The things you learn, eh?!

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Lucy is Women Health’s digital editor, social media specialist and the go-to girl for all things holistic wellness. Her background as a journalist and passion for food, fitness and integrative medicine has led her to write for some of Australia’s leading publications over the course of her career.

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