This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more control. Lie down at the edge of the bed, and have your guy kneel on the floor in front of you. Raise one leg up, and support it by wrapping your hands around your hamstring. This raises your hip just a bit so you can add some movement to aid in his stroking.
CLOSED FOR BUSINESS
If direct clitoral stimulation is too much for you, try this tactic: Lie back on the bed with your guy laying or kneeling in front of you. Close your legs during oral, and have him apply light pressure on your pubic mound while he rubs his tongue on the area around the clitoris. You might find that this indirect stimulation does the trick.
This no-bed-required move is great for a quickie. Start out by kneeling in front of your guy as he’s standing. Cover your teeth with your lips, and slowly move your lips up and down on his shaft, alternating speeds. Stop to glide your tongue over and around his head, and glance up every once in a while. Bonus: Lean a mirror against a wall to the side of his body so he can enjoy the action from more than one angle.
HEIR TO THE THRONE
There’s something about oral in a chair that implies a need-you-right-now hotness. Sit with your legs spread and your guy kneeling in front of you. This one really puts him in control, but feel free to suggest the technique you like best. Bonus: Opt for a swivel chair so he can turn it left and right mid-action.
THE FACE SITTER
This is a comfortable position for you and a super-erotic one for him. Lie back on the bed with a pillow behind your head, and then have him straddle your shoulders. He can support himself by holding the bed’s headboard or a wall. Grab his hips to put yourself in control.
As the name suggests, this move might make you think you’re in bed with a magician. Lay back with a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up. Bend your knees, and place your feet on his shoulder blades. Here’s where the magic comes in: While your guy is doing his thing, have him use his hands to push gently upward on your abdomen away from the pubic bone to help bring the clitoris out from beneath the hood.
Consider this the absolute win-win when it comes to oral. Have your guy lie on the bed with you on top, facing the opposite direction. While you’re on top in 69, you can control the intensity of oral stimulation on your clitoris by lifting or pressing your pelvis. When you’re ready for a change, roll over to side-by-side 69.
Get ready for total control. While your guy is lying down, straddle him by placing your knees at his ears. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support. For an added bonus, have him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips, pressing your clitoris against it in whichever way feels best.